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This soccer book is oddly uninspiring, yet oddly irresistible. Its title raises questions. Dear England currently belongs to a hit play, an future TV show, and a public letter written by Gareth Southgate in 2021.

This iteration of Dear England isn’t formally related to any of those. It represents an anomaly in the Dear England Multiverse, a book about guidance: a traditionally dull top-level coach subject that Southgate adheres to persistently, relying on the words “leader”, “leading” or “leadership” a minimum of 500 times across its 336-page length.

Questions Explored

“What are leaders? What actions do leaders take? What insights do leaders have?” he asks at the outset, setting out his stall, but stopping short to explore “How are leaders?”, topics presumably reserved for a second book.

Otherwise, this publication features a book-shaped hole at its core. It’s an exercise in passive-aggressive self-justification, in coming close without actually saying the underlying truth, jumping skillfully from unresolved issue to unscabbed wound across a collection of pie charts, corporate platitudes and discussions about historical figures.

Engagement

Going through the book is like eavesdropping on your parents having a mannered but deeply felt debate in the nearby area while you’re trying to focus on a professional workshop titled “Numerous Justifications for My Ultimate Victory”. But it is also challenging to put down, as Southgate keeps drifting near to something you actually desire to discover, before abruptly changing tack.

Insights

Readers will find always controversial revelations in publications of this nature, due to the intense interest with leading the national team. The best instances are: the manager decided he was absolutely going to quit as England manager after spectators tossed cups at him at the Euros; he nearly decided to abandoning the game at mid-match against Bulgaria in 2019 after his team were racially abused; he pioneered the idea of set-piece coaches and all teams in the top division is now copying him; he has now misplaced his love for football, a startling admission thrown away in a short passage at the conclusion.

Guiding England through a period of fury, aspiration, turmoil and pandemic restrictions was a brutal journey. The wounds are evidently still unhealed.

Commonplace Material

In other sections, the narrative is saturated with an AI-style linguistic mush of commonplace guidance discourse. Copies of this book were distributed with critics under non-disclosure agreements before launch, likely out of concern someone might leak that “challenging discussions can, by their inherent quality, be difficult”, that you should always think before you act, that management happens where transformation combines with compassion.

Emotional Core

Readers will find nonetheless authentic sentiment within. Managing England through a period of anger, aspiration, political ferment and pandemic restrictions was a harsh journey. The scars are evidently still fresh, albeit presented in a jargon-laden reinterpretation of the standard leader narrative: why I was actually right about each issue throughout.

Notable Cases

The book’s opening passage, Trojan-horsed as exciting accounts of the deciding game of the tournament, is entirely focused on how successful he in fact was at tactical substitutions (the primary common complaint being he wasn’t good at making changes). Further on, he goes into extensive analysis about how he oversaw the Euros final of 2021 flawlessly – notably the failed tiebreaker – because he complied with a predetermined process, which must mean that introducing young players very late to take the crucial attempt of their careers was logical and right.

That approach was confirmed by a successful tiebreaker against the Swiss team at a later tournament after a fixture where England spent the entire match looking as if they were trying to put on a jumper the backwards. “The control we exerted in that shootout was absolutely exhilarating,” he writes, while equating the display to special forces neutralizing a notorious figure. Oh Gareth.

Missed Opportunities

When we come near to a insight, Southgate retreats from naming names or giving us the details. We discover there were challenging England squad members who required more consideration, possibly because they were pampered at the start of their careers. But as you expect eagerly, he is already shifting into something named a specific management theory, which claims that rather than a grouping of characteristics or principles, organizational ethos is in fact a phenomenon that is formed by, gah, enough, no more.

Highlights

Among the more compelling parts are when he explores about the incremental process of fostering mental toughness in the next generation, or how he attempted to articulate what it means to be English more coherently and more constructively than any public personality in the public eye. The standout section, there is a genuinely gripping account of that traumatic evening in the Bulgarian capital where England’s players of color were targeted with hatred (and later defended robustly by their coach).

Genuine Ending

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